Riding in public is always an experience. I know,
intellectually, that getting a bit nervous is a sign that the event is
important to me. I know that I have to practice being nervous, so I see how my
brain sabotages my riding. Then I can think ahead of my brain’s nervous quirks
– forwarded is forearmed and all that. So
when Hassler’s announced Susanne von Dietze, a position guru, was coming, I
figured who better to help me find my riding quirks?
A short aside for the dressage rail-birds that seem to enjoy
finding fault with more accomplished riders and horses—I promise you, no horse
or rider is perfect. Every accomplished
rider knows what her and her horse’s weaknesses are. They are actively working
to improve those weaknesses every day.
For those who enjoy searching for those faults like they are buried
treasure, knock yourself out, but know you are not making divine revelations
here. Accomplished riders want to ride better, even more than rail birds want to
find holes in other people’s riding. This sport is hard, and riding in public, with
all the perfectionism and pressure we idealistic, type-A dressage riders put on
ourselves, is even harder.
Back to the clinic - after last weekend’s clinic I’m proud
to say two of my quirks are better. I was able to process what she was asking
me to do AND remember to half halt most of the time. My hips didn’t become stiffer than the white
man shuffle. Two of my quirks still need work, though. My hands stopped
following, particularly in the canter, and my right seat bone disappeared to
some foreign land. As I hoped when I
threw my name in the clinic-rider sorting hat, Susanne had exercises to help me
with both of those things.
Other than the riding nerves, there’s a whole slew of other
performance-anxiety quirks that I tested last weekend. The time table I created for
arrival/braiding/tack/warm up was busy enough to prevent me from fidgeting, but not
so crammed I felt rushed. That worked.
I remembered to order video (thank you Carol at Volte
Productions!), as I am usually good about my lesson notes the first day, but the
second day when I’m not running on adrenaline, I usually forget to get my notes
down. That quirk I gave up on fixing, and just remember to order video.
There are, of course, other quirks:
For some reason, despite over 20 years of working in horses,
and 12 years after opening my own business, my ability to feel confident in a
clinic comes down to one thing – mascara. I’d really like lip gloss too, but no
mascara, that will turn me into a completely incompetent rider, I’m sure of
it. Do I wear mascara every day? Of
course not, for Pete’s sake, I work in a barn. But on clinic days, it’s
essential.
Then there’s my phone. Why, oh why, does the part of my
brain that is in charge of keeping track of my cell phone decide to play hide-and-seek
when I’m nervous? This used to happen to my keys as well (I was really bad—at one
show I had a locksmith come open my truck, only to find my keys were hiding in
my jacket pocket. At least I wasn't wearing the jacket while the locksmith was there.), but our new truck has a keypad on the door, so I can just
lock the keys in the truck.
Now on to the part you really want to know – what exercises
did Ms. von Dietze have that were so helpful for Sling and I?
For my stiff, wall-flower canter hands, she had me ride with
both reins in my outside hand. She had me hold my inside arm in front of me as
if I were hugging a giant beach ball, then turn my palm away from me, and push
forward in the same rhythm of the canter.
This worked like a charm. Suddenly my hands joined the party.
For my roaming right seat bone, she had me canter left while holding on to the back of the saddle with my right hand. Again, it worked great. Both exercises gave me a “feel reference” that I could check in with throughout the ride.
For my roaming right seat bone, she had me canter left while holding on to the back of the saddle with my right hand. Again, it worked great. Both exercises gave me a “feel reference” that I could check in with throughout the ride.
She had a couple other exercises that I really liked. I’ve played with them in lessons and training
sessions since then, and found them to be helpful enough to include in my
arsenal. Here are the two I’ve used the
most in lessons since the clinic:
Diagonal/straight – in this exercise, I rode Sling out of
the corner on a diagonal line. Once all four legs were on the diagonal, I
turned him parallel with the long side. Once all four feet were straight on
that line, I turned him back on the diagonal, and repeated this cycle until I
ran out of room.
This exercise did a great job of putting the responsibility
of self-carriage on Sling’s plate, instead of letting me help too much. As he had to keep changing direction, he
figured out quite quickly that he needed to “stay ready” and not let his weight
fall on his shoulders.
5/5/5 – in this exercise, I asked Sling to take 5 steps of
walk, 5 steps of trot, and 5 strides of canter.
Note that those were steps, not strides, so things come up really
quick.
This exercise did a fantastic job of getting Sling quicker
with his hind legs. It also got him much more
focused on my seat, as I had to use my seat as the primary aid to change the
gait. If I used too much leg, it created too much energy, and I couldn’t make the
next downward transition happen in time.
Today I head out to ride in public again, taking horses
to a local schooling show to make sure I have their warm-up routines ironed out
before we head to our first recognized show in two weeks. Hopefully I’ll be
able to keep track of my phone.
